How to Be Happy in Relationships
A lot of us have been taught that being happy in a relationship is something that just happens. We’re told that falling in love looks something like an accident. But the truth is, there’s a lot more involved when trying to figure out how to be happy in a relationship. And a lot of it is on you.
Too often, when we get in long-term relationships, we begin to expect things from our partner. They take the puppy out every morning, so we come to expect it. We do the dishes every evening, so they start to expect us to.
Just say you’re sorry, admit you’re wrong, you overreacted... please just don’t point the finger at her like it’s her fault in any way, shape, or form. She will respect you making a mistake but she’s gonna have a problem with you blaming her for something she has no knowledge of or didn’t intentional do.
Jane Smith
10 Tips for Men and Women
One of the things I hear the most from women is, “I’m not going to raise a grown man.” So while he seems suitable in some regards his ability to not handle his own business properly (whatever that may be) becomes a turnoff.
Once she feels like she’s starting to settle or lower her standards in the relationship or dating phase her guard goes up and the distance begins.
